Wednesday, May 23, 2018

Lies, lies all lies- Sonya lied to her brother about what was going on

So I dug up some text messages we managed to pull off Mike's phone.
I have changed some information to protect other's privacy. All changes are in Bold .
I'll come back to this later in another post to take apart the lies Sonya, who squandered her mother's retirement fund. Sorry for the format this is in.
2015-12-16 13:29:07Hello Michael it's your sister, was wondering if you could please give me your mailing address again?




->2015-12-16 13:30:46And I need your email address




<-2015-12-16 13:31:11

Office 3{SNIP}, MD (SNIP)



->2015-12-16 13:32:01Ok this will be a good address to send your packages?




<-2015-12-16 13:32:10

HOW are things going? I 'll call tonight. Love, Mike



->2015-12-16 13:32:10And your email address




->2015-12-16 13:32:21Pretty good




->2015-12-16 13:32:31Can I please have your email address




<-2015-12-16 13:32:38

m{SNIP}edu



->2015-12-16 13:33:49Thank you




<-2015-12-27 22:03:38

Merry Christmas. Love, Mike and Mari.



->2015-12-28 21:31:43Sorry we have been difficult to get a hold of. Merry Christmas... Everyone was good and had a nice xmas, mom had fun and got some knitting supplies and c




->2015-12-28 21:31:44rafts to paint a bird chime, a bird house, it's raw wool that you paint.. The kids made out pretty good.. And of course received the traditional kisses a




->2015-12-28 21:31:45nd beef jersey




->2015-12-28 21:34:13I have made several attempts to mail the photo album out to you, but every time I go I have an issue the last time I was there for an hour looking hi and




->2015-12-28 21:34:15lo for the specific pic you wanted which was you and SNIP and I can't find it anywhere... I'm wondering if it happens to be in any of that photo stuff




->2015-12-28 21:34:15I sent you home with last time you were down in March




->2015-12-28 21:39:20I also took mom to buy you and Marie a present and that went missin




->2015-12-28 21:39:21g, come to find someone thought was there's and wore and threw in w




->2015-12-28 21:39:22ash ... Went back to the store and gone. Didn't send every time bec




->2015-12-28 21:39:23ause items were missing in the shipment. so hope you don't mind the




->2015-12-28 21:39:24delay and the washed item, your photo album with the missing pic😔




->2015-12-28 21:39:25sorry again.




->2015-12-28 21:41:00Did you receive the amazing electronic by way of email card? It was sent to your email, from the kids and I?




<-2015-12-31 15:48:12

Do you know why mom is in the ER. Love, Mike



<-2015-12-31 16:33:30

Mom has an appointment on Monday (January 4) at 8:30 am at the Kaiser psychiatry office 19000 Homestead Rd, 2nd floor. Love, Mike



<-2015-12-31 16:36:15

You can reach the psychiatry office at (408) 366-{SNIP}. I spoke with Thomas. Love, Mike



->2015-12-31 16:43:28She kept yelling mom mom mom over and over at 5 am I went into her room she wasn't make sense so I called the ambulance they took her and said there wasn




->2015-12-31 16:43:29't anything they found to be wrong. She has been particularly clingy to me doing childish things to get my attention... It's really taking its toll, and




->2015-12-31 16:43:30I believe it's time she has a higher level of care




<-2015-12-31 16:51:27

I agree. I don't think we can wait until April to move her. The councilors at Kaiser are looking into housing options. I spoke with Dino. He can be reached at (408) 59{SNIP}.



<-2015-12-31 16:52:12

I can also fly out if I can be of some help. Love, Mike



->2015-12-31 16:52:16Yes they are actually calling me shortly to discuss pricing and placement




->2015-12-31 16:53:18I'm just worried about the possibility of spending near 10,000.00 a month in rent between this expensive house and her place




<-2015-12-31 16:56:00

Didn't you already pay a year in advance?



->2015-12-31 16:57:00No remember we only did 6 mo in advance. We've been paying since sept.




<-2015-12-31 16:57:14

Perhaps the councilors can find somewhere for her outside of San Jose, like Gilroy.



->2015-12-31 16:57:48Yes I will wait to talk with them before I start freaking out lol just kidding I'll be fine




->2015-12-31 16:58:03I'm rolling with the punches and taking it day by day




<-2015-12-31 17:00:40

You should talk to your landlord as soon as you can to discuss your options. You may not get your security deposit back.



->2015-12-31 17:05:44I'll keep you posted




<-2015-12-31 17:06:54

Thank you. Love, Mike



->2015-12-31 17:13:33Thank you too. Love, Sonya




->2016-01-01 12:56:50Happy New Michael and Mari! We love you both! Update on mom She is in a boarding home with a nurse on site to accommodate her insulin needs. The woma




->2016-01-01 12:56:51n who is in charge is Rose and she is very sweet and has really taken a liking to mom. Mom seems to be very happy as well. So I am happy and relieved al




->2016-01-01 12:56:52l went well. Great start to the new year for us all. The rent is also cheaper than the standard nursing homes because it is a private boarding home. It




->2016-01-01 12:56:53is 3,300.00 I will send the number and address later today.




<-2016-01-03 16:52:17

Thank you for the update. I'm glad you and mom are happy with it. Love, Mike



->2016-01-03 16:53:11Your welcome and I was wondering if you'd consider helping on her rent like half of it




->2016-01-04 18:22:20Here is her new address: 558 papac way, San Jose, ca 95117




->2016-01-04 18:23:35408-243-4SNIP is her number




<-2016-01-04 21:05:27

I would love to help but that would be more than half my pay and more than one of mortgage payments. Love, Mike



->2016-01-04 21:28:10Ok I understand and anything would help, I'm looking into medical for her if she qualifies the place where she is could be potentially paid for




<-2016-01-04 21:30:23

Great. Keep me updated. We can discuss how much I might be able to contribute. Love, Mike



->2016-01-04 21:30:53Thank you




<-2016-01-06 12:34:43

Just got a call from Rebecca, a social worker from the county who wants to talk to mom. She can reached at (408) 755-7SNIP



<-2016-01-11 21:04:56

How are you doing? What is it like not having mom in the house?



->2016-01-13 13:49:30Hi it's been fine I actually took advantage of my week with no one to care for and took a fight to Hawaii where I came to my friends house where I am sta




->2016-01-13 13:49:31ying I'll be returning on Saturday.. This trip has cost in total 600.00




->2016-01-13 13:49:43Free food and lodging ..




<-2016-01-13 15:21:16

That's great. You really deserve that rest and relaxation. Have a great time. Love , Mike



->2016-01-13 15:55:09Thanks so much! I said wait a minute N Kim and Mike1 are going to dads.... Mom's in her new place... Kays back at school...??!? You mean I will be by m




->2016-01-13 15:55:10yself for a whole week??!!? I had to seize the moment!




->2016-01-19 22:57:39Hi mike I'm home and went to visit mom and she's crying that she's miserable there... And wants to come home I think .. But where she is is affordable an




->2016-01-19 22:57:40d the woman is very nice... Mom is complaining of being bored and neglected.. Same thing she complained of at home with us




->2016-01-19 22:58:10I believe it's not the people and the places... It's her situation, she's unhappy with.




->2016-01-19 23:01:41She being very difficult causing commotions and stirring up stuff... Crying for attention like a child.. She acts as if she's got some medical problem an




->2016-01-19 23:01:42d goes to ER and nothing is wrong.. It's more her mental state. She complains of being abused as in neglect not physical, but it's simply not true.. And




->2016-01-19 23:01:43now she regrets going to this new place.. I just am not able to care for her... So I believe she should stay where she is




->2016-01-19 23:02:22Anyway let's talk when your free Gd nite Love Sonya




<-2016-01-22 21:01:50

Hi Sonya. Thank you for the update. I'll call you tomorrow. We 'll be home waiting out the snow storm. Love, Mike



<-2016-01-27 22:42:40

Hi Sonya. Would tomorrow night be a good time to call? Love, Mike

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